So I’ve seen this idea done for other kinks; I recently filled in a tickling themed one and shared on my twitter.
Then, I decided to jump on the bandwagon (is there a bandwagon here?) and make my own version for spanking. One probably already exists but if so… here is another one!
I’ve filled it in but hey, if you asked me to fill this in next week, or next month, or even tomorrow, it might be different because I constantly change my mind about stuff!
But overall, I feel this is probably a good idea how how I feel. Here’s my result, and I’ll also post a blank version below in case anyone else wants to do their own.
You’re welcome to share your results in the comments, or tag me on twitter – I’m interested in everyone’s jars!
Also, it’s possible to get creative when filling this out if you’re not sure simply filling in the jar fully represents how you feel. For example, what if you feel differently when Topping than bottoming?
One idea is to eg. Fill in the Top jar one colour (eg. green) and the bottom another (eg. red) and the switch a third colour (eg. purple). Then, if you like something as a Top or a bottom, fill it purple. If only as a Top, green. If you love it as a Top, but only like it as a bottom, could mix lots of green with a bit of red. And so on.
Someone I know who filled this in added dots to ones they ‘love to hate’ which I thought was a great idea!
With the two-colour idea you could also use one colour to maybe indicate ‘fantasy only’ if there’s something you live in fantasy/stories but not for real life.
Of course, I filled mine in before thinking of, or hearing about any other these other ideas…