[This index last updated 20th December 2023]
As I have made an increasing number of non-story posts, I have this index of all my rambles and non-story posts.
If this isn’t the page you want, try my Stories Index.
Some posts which are not stories, which may be of interest. Of note, I often change my views and opinions on things and often find myself not, or not entirely agreeing with myself when I read my past posts. In fact, I often cringe, facepalm, and hover over the delete button.
The older a post is, the more likely I am to no longer necessarily agree with my old self, or have had my viewpoint shift.
Since starting this blog in 2018, I have gone from having never done a spanking scene in real life, to playing ‘properly’ for the first time in mid 2020, to having done scenes with a variety of people by early to mid 2021, and beginning to play semi-regularly within a spanko community I have slowly been discovering. I have re-thought a lot about how I think about spanking.
So maybe also look at the date of a post. With that in mind, have at it:
I have decided to list these as MOST RECENT posts first, oldest posts further down the list:
Sips and Smacks: A Spanko Podcast (on which I was a guest!) (September 2023)
Discipline Works? A Paradox and a Self-Fulfilling Prophecy (May 2023)
What is “Friends With Consequences”? (May 2023)
I Don’t Identify as a Brat (April 2023)
I Customised an Ebony Mirror into a Paddle (March 2023)
“They Call Them Crazy” (February 2023)
Oh Hey, I Published a Book… (February 2023)
“I’m at this amazing incredible event! …Why do I feel so low?” (January 2023)
Yes, you’re the odd one out (and so is everyone else) (December 2022)
Just a thought about those anxious feelings many of us get at events… (November 2022)
On First Times (Spanking!) (November 2022)
Top/bottom? Dom[me]/sub? spanker/spankee? (Terms as a Spanko…) (November 2022)
I made a spanko story writers’ discord server (October 2022)
Photos Being Shared Without Consent – What Does The Law Say? (October 2022)
“It should be redder” – The Facepalmiest of Comments (October 2022)
The Art of Commenting on Pictures (September 2022)
Safe Play is More than Having a Safeword… (September 2022)
If You’re a Woman(+) Looking for an Online Spanking Community… (September 2022)
So It Turns Out Just Anyone Can Have Business Cards Made… (September 2022)
Oh Hey, I Got Interviewed By A Sex Blogger For A Newsletter… (September 2022)
You Have To Go To Events (August 2022)
I Don’t Play or Behave Like My Characters: Random Differences I’ve Noticed Between Me and Them (May 2022)
I have Thoughts on Pranks (March 2022)
Ticklishness Sensitivity/Desensitivity (February 2022)
Thoughts on How I Negotiate Spanking: When I Top (February 2022)
Secretly Three Raccoons in a Trench Coat? (January 2022)
Negotiating a Spanking Scene as a Bottom: Points For Consideration (November 2021)
So It Turns Out I’m A Switch Afterall (plus me overanalyzing stuff as usual) (October 2021)
30 Spanko Quiz Questions to Overthink About (February 2021)
Spanko Thermometers: Terms of Address Indicator (January 2021)
Jars of Spanko Kinks (I made a thing…) (January 2021)
What Responsibility Do We have As Spanko/Kink Authors? (December 2020)
Talking To Vanilla People About Spanking (December 2020)
Self Esteem Issues (November 2020)
I’m a Lesbian But Wait! – Am I Bi? (September 2020)
Age in Relationships, and Am I an Age Player? (September 2020)
Audio Version of my Stories? Opinions… (September 2020)
Are You An Incurable Spanko? Take The Test… (September 2020)
A Word Cloud Of The Descriptive Words I Like To Use In My Spanking Stories… Hehehe (September 2020)
Am I A Born Spanko? (September 2020)
If You Want To See The Chart In Colour (September 2020)
A Promise of Future Spankings… (September 2020)
The Tickle Fetishist Alignment Chart! (September 2020)
The Spanko/TTWD Alignment Chart! (September 2020)
Spanko Would You Rather. (September 2020)
I Must Confess: I Bought That Paddle… (August 2020)
Supermarket Spanking Implements (August 2020)
My New Patreon Page… (August 2020)
I Received Some Naughty Birthday Gifts! (July 2020)
Random PSA: Your Work is Automatically Copyrighted. (July 2020)
Confession: I Get Frustrated Writing About Tickling! (July 2020)
The Strange Benefit of Lockdown: I’ve Come Out More (June 2020)
I’m a Thrill Seeker (is that why I like tickling?) (June 2020)
My Interest in Spanking vs Tickling (June 2020)
Safe Words (and where are they in my stories?) (June 2020)
On Embarrassment… (June 2020)
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